Tuesday, October 22, 2013

To My Lovey...

Dear Mr. Wonderful, (AKA Brian A Shealy), it is the end of a long, very normal, very busy, and very good day. I feel a great urge to write something profound and lengthy and worthy of such a significant milestone as our 25th wedding anniversary, but it is really simple, and this will be short. 
I love you. 
I thank God for you. 
God has used you to transform my life in so many ways, all for good.
You have taught me by example what it means to love God and love people.
We have made beautiful memories together, the easy and difficult woven together, and God has been so faithful.
I look forward to the next 25 with a confident expectation that God will continue to lead us, provide for us, teach us how to love, and change us to be more like the Lord Jesus Christ.
I am humbled and grateful that you are mine, and so very happy that I am yours.
Happy Anniversary.
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Monday, July 29, 2013

Let Nothing Stop Your Service

It is Jesus himself whom we, as Christians, serve. And since He deserves everything we can give Him, don't let anything (discouragement, opposition, or even your own unworthiness) stop you from continuing to serve Him.

"Discouragement comes readily enough to us poor mortals who are occupied in the
work of God, seeing it is a work of faith, a work of difficulty, a work above our
capacity, and a work much opposed. "

"Moreover, the enemy contrasts our work with that of others, and with that of those
who have gone before us. We are doing so little as compared with other people,
therefore let us give up. We cannot build like Solomon, therefore let us not build at
all. Yet, brethren, there is a falsehood in all this; for, in truth, nothing is worthy of
God. The great works of others, and even the amazing productions of Solomon, all fell
short of his glory. "

"Instead of being discouraged because what we do is unworthy of God, and
insignificant compared with what was done by others, let us gather up our strength
to reform our errors, and reach to higher attainments." -Charles Haddon Spurgeon
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Monday, July 22, 2013

The Providence of God


Notes from the study on the providence of God yesterday. This same awesome, powerful God, who rules over all his world, is the friend of sinners like me. Wow.



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Sunday, July 21, 2013

He Is Doing Something

"We should not be too taken aback when unexpected and upsetting and discouraging things happen to us now. What do they mean? Simply that God in his wisdom means to make something of us which we have not attained yet, and he is dealing with us accordingly." --J. I. Packer in Knowing God
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Thursday, July 18, 2013

Look Up

Such a great passage to remind me where the focus of my life should be:

"Therefore if you have been raised up with Christ, keep seeking the things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your mind on the things above, not on the things that are on earth.  For you have died and your life is hidden with Christ in God.  When Christ, who is our life, is revealed, then you also will be revealed with Him in glory."  Colossians 3:1-4

It is so easy to get distracted by life in all of its consuming busyness, by the difficulties, and even by the good things that we sometimes pursue instead of the Perfect One who gives us everything. But we must keep redirecting our attention above, to our Lord Jesus.  He died for us so that He could now be our LIFE. I'm praying that the hope of seeing Him face to face will drive my life moment to moment down here.
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Prayer For Today

Lord, rid us of every particle of self-reliance and teach us to trust fully in You alone. (inspired by J.I. Packer's book Knowing God, chapter 9)
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Saturday, July 13, 2013

You Can Pray!

What a comforting thought that on any given day, you (as a blood-bought child of God) have access to the mighty sovereign King of the universe. He hears and answers the cries of those who have been redeemed by his son, the Lord Jesus. He cares. He loves you. He can do something about your troubles. We can pray.

"I have called upon You, for You will answer me, O God;
Incline Your ear to me, hear my speech.
Wondrously show Your lovingkindness,
O Savior of those who take refuge at Your right hand
From those who rise up against them.
Keep me as the apple of the eye;
Hide me in the shadow of Your wings." Psalm 17: 6-8
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Friday, July 12, 2013

"No Love to Jesus? Impossible!"

"Do you love Jesus?

You must light your torch of affection for Christ — at the altar of Calvary. You must go there, and learn and believe what the love of Jesus is to you: the vastness of that love; the self-sacrifice of that love; how that love of Christ labored and wept, bled, suffered, and died for you!

Can you stand before this love — this love so precious, so great, so enduring, so self-consuming, so changeless; and know that . . .
  for you was this offering,
  for you this cross,
  for you this agony,
  for you this scorn and insult,
  for you this death —
and feel no sensibility, no emotion, no love to Jesus? Impossible!

Do not be cast down, then, in vain regrets that your love to Christ is so frigid, so fickle, so dubious. Go and muse upon the reality and the greatness of the Savior's love to you — and if love can inspire love, while you muse, the fire will burn, and your soul shall be all in flame with love to Jesus!"
-- Octavius Winslow (1808-1878)
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Thursday, July 11, 2013

God, What Are You doing?

Difficulties and troubles can be very useful.  Often they strip away the frivolity of our living and thinking and instead make us think seriously and search for meaning and truth that will help us stand in the storms of life. God intends trials to bring us back to Him.  In our pain we are more able to recognize our weakness, our inadequacy, our dependency, and our great need for God.  Trials make us grapple with questions like, "What do I really believe about God? And what in the world is He doing?"

Today I was reading J.I. Packer's classic book Knowing God.  In it (Chapter 9, God Only Wise), I found a quote that gives a great answer to that question, "God, what are you doing?", and will help us align our lives with his great purposes for us, even in trials.

"God's almighty wisdom is always active, and never fails. All his works of creation and providence and grace display it, and until we can see it in them we just are not seeing them straight.  But we cannot recognize God's wisdom unless we know the end for which he is working.  Here many go wrong.  Misunderstanding what the Bible means when it says that God is love (see 1 John 4:8-10), they think that God intends a trouble-free life for all, irrespective of their moral and spiritual state, and hence they conclude that anything painful and upsetting (illness, accident, injury, loss of job, the suffering of a loved one) indicates either that God's wisdom, or power, or both, have broken down, or that God, after all, does not exist.

But this idea of God's intention is a complete mistake: God's wisdom is not, and never was, pledged to keep a fallen world happy, or to make ungodliness comfortable.  Not even to Christians has he promised a trouble-free life; rather the reverse.  He has other ends in view for life in this world than simply to make it easy for everyone.

What is he after, then?  What is his goal?  What does he aim at?  When he made us, his purpose was that we should love and honor him, praising him for the wonderfully ordered complexity and variety of his world, using it according to his will, and so enjoying both it and him.  And though we have fallen, God has not abandoned his first purpose.  Still he plans that a great host of humankind should come to love and honor him.  His ultimate objective is to bring them to a state in which he is all in all to them, and he and they rejoice continually in the knowledge of each other's love--people rejoicing in the saving love of God, set upon them from all eternity, and God rejoicing in the responsive love of people, drawn out of them by grace through the gospel. 

This will be God's glory, and our glory too, in every sense which that weighty word can bear. But it will only be fully realized in the next world, in the context of a transformation of the whole created order. Meanwhile, however, God works steadily toward it.  His immediate objectives are to draw individual men and women into a relationship of faith, hope, and love toward himself, delivering them from sin and showing forth in their lives the power of his grace; to defend his people against the forces of evil; and to spread throughout the world the gospel by means of which he saves.

In the fulfillment of each part of this purpose the Lord Jesus Christ is central, for God has set him forth both as Savior from sin, whom we must trust, and as Lord of the church, whom we must obey."

Yes, the last line is in bold type because it reminds me that Christ is at the very center of all God is doing. Through him we have been saved from the impending wrath that was ours because of our sin, and on this side of the cross we need him every single day as we receive the grace to respond to life in a way that acknowledges the wisdom and love of our heavenly Father, who is behind it all.  What a comfort to know that we are in good hands.


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Monday, July 8, 2013

Take Heart

Anyone ever feel like a failure, or feel discouraged by the reality of your sin?

Take heart, Christian, because You are still alive, Jesus isn't done with any of us, and there is always hope when He is part of the equation. As a fellow sinner, I am daily comforted by the fact that God will never stop loving us:

" The Lord is compassionate and gracious, Slow to anger and abounding in lovingkindness. He will not always strive with us, Nor will He keep His anger forever. He has not dealt with us according to our sins, Nor rewarded us according to our iniquities. For as high as the heavens are above the earth, So great is His lovingkindness toward those who fear Him. As far as the east is from the west, So far has He removed our transgressions from us. Just as a father has compassion on his children, so the Lord has compassion on those who fear Him. For He Himself knows our frame; He is mindful that we are but dust." -Psalm 103:8-14
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Magnificent

I was first introduced to the music of Matt Redman when my daughter shared his song 10,000 Reasons with our church. So I bought his cd with the same name and have so enjoyed it.  One of my favorites songs now from that cd is called Magnificent, and it draws my heart to worship....
                                                                     "Magnificent"

You show Your majesty
In every star that shines
And every time we breathe
Your glory, God, revealed
From distant galaxies
To here beneath our skin

You are higher than we ever could imagine
And closer than our eyes could ever see
You are...

[Chorus]
Magnificent, You alone are holy
No one else as glorious as You
Magnificent, Jesus You are worthy
Who can shine as brightly as You do?
Magnificent
You're so magnificent

You're lighting up our lives
Illuminate our hearts
With everything You are

You are higher than we ever could imagine
And closer than our eyes could ever see
You are...

[Chorus]
Magnificent, You alone are holy
No one else as glorious as You
Magnificent, Jesus You are worthy
Who can shine as brightly as You do?
Magnificent
You're so magnificent
Magnificent
You're so magnificent

You are higher than we ever could imagine
And closer than our eyes could ever see
We are pouring out our hearts here in Your presence

[Chorus]
Magnificent, You alone are holy
No one else as glorious as You
Magnificent, Jesus You are worthy
Who can shine as brightly as You do?
Magnificent
You're so magnificent
Magnificent
You're so magnificent

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Hear it here on youtube.

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Sunday, July 7, 2013

The Gospel

The Gospel is

That I was dead but Christ is my life
That I am empty but He is more than enough to fill me completely

That I fail constantly but He is sufficient for these things

That I am sinful but He is making me holy

That my filthy rags He has exchanged for a pure expensive robe

That I was lost in hatred but He has a stronger love

That I was bound in slavery but He obliterated my chains

That I was walking a road to destruction but He transferred me to the kingdom of light
That I am daily weak but He is Lord over all

That I am nothing yet He is everything and more.
                         -Savannah Shealy

My daughter, Savannah, is really good at writing encouraging things. True story!
Read more of her stuff here.


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Saturday, July 6, 2013

They Were Meant To Be

Sing these words in your heart about all the people God has placed in your life.  His desire is that we value the preciousness of each soul that He created. And pray that He would use you to lead many more people to know Jesus Christ so that each life would bring glory to its Creator!

MEANT TO BE
by Steven Curtis Chapman
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Long before you drew your first breath
A dream was coming true

God wanted to give a gift to the world
So he wrapped it up in you

Every step that you’ve taken
Every move that you make
Is part of his plan

You were meant to be touching
The lives that you touch

And meant to be here
Making this world so much more
Than it would be without you in it

You were meant to be bringing
The gifts that you bring
And singing the songs
You’ve been given to sing

You are perfectly, wonderfully,
Beautifully meant to be
You were meant to be

Long before you took your first fall
You stumbled to the ground
God started telling the story of you to the angles around
Every failure and victory
Everything in between
Its all in his hand

You were meant to be touching
The lives that you touch
And meant to be here
Making this world so much more
Than it would be without you in it

You were meant to be bringing
The gifts that you bring

And singing the songs
You’ve been given to sing

You are perfectly, wonderfully,
Beautifully meant to be
You were meant to be (yeah)
Meant to be
You are
You are
You are meant to be
You are
You are
You are meant to be

For every breath that your taking
And every move that you make
It’s a meaningful life you’ve been given
Live it well

You were meant to be touching
The lives that you touch
And meant to be here
Making this world so much more
Than it would be without you in it

You were meant to be bringing
The gifts that you bring
And singing the songs
You’ve been given to sing

You are perfectly, wonderfully,
Beautifully meant to be (yeah)
You were meant to be (yeah)
You were meant to be (yeah)
You were meant to be
To be
You were meant to be
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Thursday, July 4, 2013

True Freedom on the Fourth

Growing up in America means that on the Fourth of July we enjoy celebrating the day with fireworks, parades, parties, very creative displays of red, white, and blue food, and time to relax with friends.  I love all of those things, and have a collection of memories from years past of how we spent the day with many wonderful people.


But the word freedom makes me think of something much deeper, and really has nothing to do with the United States of America.  My most cherished thoughts of freedom are wrapped up in what Jesus Christ has done for me.  It  happened over 27 years ago, but I can still remember what it felt like to feel freedom from my sins for the first time. You can read a longer version of it here, but the short version is that I came to experience this: 
"For He rescued us from the domain of darkness, and transferred us to the kingdom of His beloved Son, in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins." (Colossians 1:13, 14)

The idea of freedom must involve a rescue from something, a deliverance from some oppression, or danger. It is exactly why Jesus came to earth. He came to set captives free from a life of slavery to sin.  He is the one way out of that slavery. He offers that deliverance to everyone who will come to Him, putting all their hope in who He is and what He has done.

I am extremely thankful for the blessings of national freedom that we enjoy in our country. But the spiritual freedom that I have found in Jesus makes me pray that God will do something even more amazing in America than continue the legacy we have of national peace and prosperity.  I'm praying that He will set people free from their slavery to sin, deliver them from the spiritual death that sin brings, and that many will come to embrace Jesus Christ as the WAY, the TRUTH, and the LIFE.  

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Wednesday, July 3, 2013

That Demanding Little Word

So, I was enjoying a casual reading of Philippians 2 when this verse, (especially one word in it), grabbed my attention:

"Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility of mind regard one another as more important than yourselves;" (Philippians 2:3)

Nothing?!?   Wait!  What??  Not even one, single thing?!

Nothing! What a demanding little word!  "Nothing" calls me to refuse all my natural inclinations to sinfully think of myself first. It also requires that I stop acting from a heart of pride, and treating people in any way that says, "I am more important than you are."  It makes me throw away every reason why I feel justified in my "me" moment.

This passage is actually a familiar one, and so is my struggle with selfishness and pride. I have been a Christian for a long time now, but those two sinful traits are deeply woven into the fiber of every human being, and I am well aware that I didn't turn out to be the exception. But we "grown-up" believers have progressed to the point that sometimes our struggle is better behaved and mostly happens on the inside. But, yes, I still have times of struggle to humble myself and consider others as more important than myself. Why? Well,  in my moment of pride and selfishness, I choose to not believe that Christ can be trusted to give me everything I need and be everything that is truly satisfying to my soul.  So I position myself to to look out for my own best interests, to manipulate circumstances, or react negatively when it doesn't go the way I want it.  My pursuit of happiness at the expense of others flies in the face of God's ability, desire, and commitment to take care of me.

Praise God that the rest of Philippians 2 is just the medicine for my proud and selfish heart. A portrait of Jesus emerges, the perfect picture of humility, and the epitome of sacrificial selflessness.  My entitlement mentality begins to die when I look to Jesus. See what He did. Be changed by the fact that His unselfish humility was for me.

"Have this attitude in yourselves which was also in Christ Jesus, who, although He existed in the form of God, did not regard equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied Himself, taking the form of a bond-servant, and being made in the likeness of men. Being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross. For this reason also, God highly exalted Him, and bestowed on Him the name which is above every name, so that at the name of Jesus every knee will bow, of those who are in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and that every tongue will confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father."  (Phil. 2:5-11)  

Jesus rightly commands us to live in unselfish humility towards others, because that is exactly how He has treated us. Such humility displayed! He laid aside His glory in heaven, took the lowly form of a man, and continued to walk the path of humility and sacrifice all the way to the cross. He did that for me and you.

That vision of unfathomable love makes the sacrifices involved with loving people on the horizontal level seem really small.    



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Thursday, June 27, 2013

"Wisdom without power would be pathetic, a broken reed; power without wisdom would be merely frightening; but in God boundless wisdom and endless power are united, and this makes him utterly worthy of our fullest trust."  -Packer in "Knowing God"
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Wednesday, June 26, 2013

"I have come as light into the world, that everyone who believes in Me may not remain in darkness." -Jesus
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Saturday, June 22, 2013

God "blesses those on whom he sets his love in a way that humbles them, so that all the glory may be his alone."      -J.I. Packer in "Knowing God"
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Friday, June 21, 2013

Humility = Prayer

Pride looks back at the past and complains. It's like saying, "God, I could've done it better!" Pride looks forward to the future and worries. It's like saying, "God, I'm not sure I can trust you to do it right next time."  The best way to repent of pride is to humble yourself and pray. 

"...and all of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, for God is opposed to the proud, but gives grace to the humble.
Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you at the proper time, casting all your anxiety on Him, because He cares for you." 

(Just remembering a convicting sermon Brian preached once from 1 Peter 5:5-7)
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Thursday, June 20, 2013

The Gospel in a Nutshell

“For God (the greatest Being) so loved (displayed the greatest attribute to the greatest degree) the world (the greatest scope of people), that He gave (the greatest gesture) His only begotten Son (the greatest gift), that whoever (the greatest invitation) believes (the greatest simplicity) in Him (the greatest Person) shall not perish (the greatest rescue), but have (the greatest certainty) eternal life (the greatest possession).
                            John 3:16  (Thanks, Brian Shealy!)
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